ESTJ

ESTJs are hardly the most romantic of people. They find it very difficult to express emotions or empathize with others. That’s…

Decisive, pragmatic, and leadership-oriented, ESTJs are a common group from the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). With any group of people, it’s…

ESTJs are labeled dull and seem to lead boring lives because they need and love routine. ESTJs follow a structure even with their hobbies and entertainment. They prefer it that way; however, others find it boring because they tend to avoid spontaneity and new experiences they are not used to.

ESTJs are one of the most hated personality types because they can be arrogant, don’t express emotion well, and are highly focused on social status. They can be judgmental, expect everyone to follow only their way of things, and are sometimes disrespectful and don’t consider others’ feelings.

ESTJs can be narcissistic if they are emotionally unhealthy. They are extroverted, enthusiastic beings who want others to be the same, and their approach sometimes seems manipulative. The MBTI does not determine a person to be narcissistic – that depends entirely on each individual’s behavior.

ESTJs are great in bed because they channel their assertive and direct nature in the bedroom. They love relationships and use sex to connect and build intimacy. ESTJs are predictable and not always open to trying new things, but they work hard and ensure to satisfy their partners in the bedroom.

The ESTJ is not a lazy type. Their solid wills and genuine dedication ensure they avoid procrastination, mainly when it lets others down. However, Executives often neglect the emotional side of life – they are lazy when it comes to introspection and self-care.

ESTJs are leaders, highly rational and practical people who approach life in a very organized and efficient way. This levelheaded pragmatism is a sign of high cognitive intelligence which often translates into success in almost any endeavor they undertake and is seen by others as being very smart.

The ESTJ is principled, responsible, and inclined to lead due to their extraversion. This means that they are the total opposite of shy. Their strong personality and diligence make them seem unlikeable to some; however, they make great police officers, lawyers, and judges.

Like most people, ESTJs enjoy attention but do not crave it or rely on it. Although they are independent and enjoy strict routines, they nevertheless value their attention from family and friends. ESTJs also appreciate being able to lead groups efficiently, requiring people to focus on them.