You know the scene with the adult equivalent of the class clown in action. You can’t get far away enough from the full-scale entertainer and feel helpless as you grin instead of laugh at the same old jokes. Just what is it that makes the ESFP so annoying?
ESFPs have an annoying desire to dominate and grab attention. One of four distinct personality types in the Myers-Briggs Type Index (MBTI), the acronym ESFP defines the traits as extroversion, sensing, feeling, and perceiving. Extroversion on an interpersonal level gets the most flack.
A good night out is often spoilt by the loud behavior of a single party-goer. One of the most annoying aspects is the repetitious banter and the so-called life-and-soul of the party that knows no limit. And the ESFP can’t be switched off! Ever wondered what makes the ESFP so appallingly annoying? Here are some clues to the most annoying traits of this extrovert.
ESFPs Have A Knack For Annoying Others
ESFPs vacillate between being extroverts and the sensitivity of the feeling types. The typical attributes are spontaneity, resourcefulness, and being outgoing. Not a menacing combo, you might think. But, like a carefully mixed cocktail, this entertainer-type can turn that into a mix that’ll shake you up! The ESFP loves being center-stage, and grab everyone’s attention, in the loudest way.
On the one end, ESFPs are warm, sympathetic, and easy-going. On the other, this personality type is annoying. It can even be good to be with an ESPF for short periods. The feeling part of the traits makes ESFPs compassionate and understanding. It’s when the extrovert is let out that the performer kicks in, and then there’s no stopping!
Here are 9 of the most annoying traits associated with this personality type:
1. Clowning Away
The class clown is the best way to describe the antics of this personality type. The ESFP is known to want to be the center of attention. And has infinite ways (even energy) to keep going! The most annoying part is that the ESFP is unaware that the clowning is disruptive. And if they don’t seem to care. ESFPs also don’t need much encouragement. They’re egged on by the slightest smile.
You know the type in junior and middle grade, and then in adulthood. We all have a story about that kid and now an adult acquaintance. The most annoying habit is a desire to distract. Remember the class clown in a maths or a physics class? The personality type that grows up but doesn’t outgrow the clowning! The same traits continue in adulthood and in the workplace.
Some of these performances are predictable, the jokes, wisecracks, and those silly noises! Most annoying are trite expressions, pulling faces, and, of course, bumping into imaginary walls!
2. Disruptive Behavior
ESFP’s lack of focus is arguably the most disruptive and annoying attribute in a fixed setting, a classroom, or a workplace. This trait is the most irritating for many as getting things done without distraction is essential. Not even the most ordinary events run smoothly without the ASFP butting in and trying to make fun of rather than getting on with the project.
The ESFPs mind is often bent on disrupting events, and this annoying behavior is often criticized. The ESFP personality also doesn’t take kindly to being put in their place. The ESFP lives in the moment, and often the experiences are their own creation – that’s how they like it. The disruption they cause seems to be an insignificant side-show to them that others have to grin and bear. Most annoying!
3. Assumed Magnetism
The ESFP personality type is fun to be around until they assume an air of importance. This is when they place themselves center stage and perform with assumed magnetism. The ESFP believes in their personal attractiveness. Even their supposed interestingness and they behave as if everyone else feels the same way.
Like the kid classroom clown, the entertainer type that lurks in the ESFP often sneaks out. This is infuriating when one wants to have a joke-free good chat with friends. Oblivious to their obnoxious behavior, it usually is impossible to escape their tiresome behavior. Mostly ESFPs assumed importance is irritating, tedious, and annoying. And they love the spotlight.
4. Extrovert
ESFPs are good at assuming an air of importance that makes them popular and often attract a small fan base. The extrovert in them gives off an air of fun-loving, happiness, cheerfulness, and sociability. This is until they realize they are not center stage. This is an annoying trait as an ESFP almost always wants attention – cheerfulness depends on this.
The loudness and showing-off associated with being the life-and-soul of the party depend on others. The extrovert trait gives the ESFP the drive to be an entertainer in small groups and face-to-face. This trait, associated with conceitedness and loudness, makes the ESFP annoying. The ESFP is better-knowing, pushy, and often disruptive in small gatherings.
5. Practical Joker
If you like practical jokes, befriend an ESFP. This domain allows this type to entertain and laugh their heart out as you fall flat on your face! The scenario for the ESFP practical joker is when there’s an audience. You know, in the classroom or at the workplace. Even with a small group of friends. The ESFP type has many practical jokes up its sleeve to perform at a moment’s notice.
If the joke’s on you once, it may be funny. But for the ESFP joker type, that’s not the aim. A laugh makes an ESFP happy – and they’ll repeatedly tell you and everyone else that. Gregarious by nature, the ESFP regards this as endless fun. It’s definitely among the most annoying attributes – feeble and foolish.
For others, the annoying ESFP is much like the twins Fred and George Weasley in Harry Potter and their joke shop!
6. Self-centred
The ESFP is aware of their sense of importance which is a negative trait when played out. Often the best counteractions are to ignore a self-centered ESFP. Though this might be the obvious thing to do, ESFPs are easily bored when not the center of attention. In their case, the boredom becomes a sulkiness which is annoying.
Veering from wanting all the attention to sulking is one of the most annoying and complex ESFP traits to cope with. ESFPs believe they bring smiles and enjoyment, and that is annoying!
7. Amateur Dramatic
The performer on stage has a role, even a script. The ESFP’s performance is monotonous, always the same, with a set of jokes and a predictable performance. The annoying part is that ESPFs love themselves. Right from junior school, middle school, and adulthood, the ESFP believes they are good actors. But seldom audition or are cast in plays!
The classic classroom clown grows up with the ESFP trait developing and becomes a fun-seeking adult who knows no limit. The ESFP doesn’t like a scripted role and sees themselves as best at adlibbing. This is annoying as it’s almost as if one can predict their performances. Most people would rather avoid these antics. But the ESFP needs an audience.
8. Performance Freak
Everyone needs to be entertained! Yes, and the entertainer is none other than the ESFP. The ESFP wants to be noticed – at a party or dinner table. Even doing daring and dangerous antics, the ESFP wants to be seen. The ESFP is impulsive and, without too much provocation, can perform stunts that vary from foolish to dangerous! Often even falling off a ledge or a table!
The performances of ESFPs are frustratingly annoying. You can tell an ESFP by their mannerisms and quirkiness; that way, they won’t let go. These personalities easily will strip off their clothes to provoke a reaction. And they’re always looking for new adventures.
9. Lack Of Focus
One of the most annoying traits associated with an ESFP on projects and in the workplace is their lack of focus. The ESFP is easily distracted and inclined to want to fool away rather than do their bit. This is distressing when a project is on deadline, and the ESFP is not committed. It is annoying as most of the time, the rest of the team stands in for them.
Part of ESFPs’ lack of focus is that they quickly get bored. What the ESFP best likes is being a comedian. Allow them the freedom to imitate voices, joke, and think of pranks; that’s their focus. And that is why they are so annoying in a team.
Conclusion
ESFPs are annoying as they fool around for attention. Their behavioral patterns are tedious. Most of the time, their behavior is repetitious and monotonous. Their exhibitionist traits and tendencies are disruptive. And the craving to be the center of attraction is the most annoying aspect of their personality.
The ESFP is a spotlight hog of note. And this can be annoying if you like a bit of it too.
